Dear Ophelia

Ophelia, I would normally tell you to follow your heart, but in this case, an anomaly I might add,  you may not want to get mixed up any debauchery with Hamlet.  His family is in an extremely bellicose state and it would be wise to expurgate yourself entirely.  Nevertheless, it is your life and if you truly care for him then you may wish to follow him into his rancorous relations with his uncle.  My best advice would be not to take any precipitous actions.It would be an abomination to see a brusque decision abase your life.  I don't mean to sound churlish when I say that hamlet is trouble because frankly he is troubled. Best of luck to you and I hope you can solve this conundrum.